I'm an analyst in a hedge fund and I feel poor. I dress cheap and I act cheap. I'm a cheap date (ask my wife), but if you knew how much money I make you'd find my claim to poverty laughably absurd. I'm on a multiple six figure package. The problem is that everyone I know seems to make more money than I do.
You might think I'm crazy for thinking this way (and maybe I am), but this is a pretty common feeling across the Street.
Finance is an interesting industry. People in this industry are more focused on pay than people in any other industry I know. This is partly self-selection bias: finance pays well and therefore attracts people for whom pay is overwhelmingly important. Finance also attracts people who are hyper-competitive. - You have to jump through a ot of academic hoops to enter this industry and the people who succeed want to be the best. They want to go to the best restaurants, have the nicest houses, and drive the fastest cars. All of this requires money. A lot of it.
And then there's the actual job. Working in finance is all about money. We deal with it all day, all the time. And the sums of money we deal with are enormous. This means that even large paychecks can seem tiny in comparison.
The upshot is that if you work in finance for too long, you can lose track of reality. This is why you need friends who don't work in the industry. I recently spoke to a long term friend who doesn't work in a hedge fund or a bank and it was illuminating. He was debating between two jobs. One paid more, but had longer hours. The other
paid less, but had much better work/life balance. He chose the lower pay.
For me, this was almost incomprehensible. Personally, I would not have chosen the lower paying job and nor would anyone I work with. Trying to understand his perspective was like trying to do advanced alegbra in my head. My friend was genuinely okay with making less money, just to spend more time with his family. Does that mean I dislike my family? Or do I just have different priorities?
It was a real eye-opener. My friend wasn’t getting a six or even seven-figure guarantee to switch jobs. He wasn't getting relocation assistance for to move. He was just a regular guy who wanted to switch to another regular job, but with better work/life balance.
It's changed my perspective - slightly. I’m not going to suddenly sell all my belongings and travel the world like a hippie. I’m still going to put a high priority on my career progression and continue to look for opportunities to pull in the big bucks. But I'm also going to be a little more appreciative of what I have, instead of focusing on all the people that make more money than I do. That's a trap that's too easy to fall into when you work in finance and everyone you know does the same.
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